I’ve put a lot of thought into what I want from this blog. Ever since my first entry, regarding my Triad relationship with my husband Alex and our boyfriend Jon, I’ve gotten daily emails from people all over the world trying to do what we are doing. Trying to find a way to live outside the box, to be in love in ways that make sense to them: to expand what they have been told we are and how we must behave. So in a way, this blog is now dedicated to that. This is my story, it is our story: Alex and I first beginning down the road of “monogamyish”, then meeting Jon, becoming a triad and the conversations we have around being open (a continuously fluid status for us) and what that means. In some ways it is how we made it all work, where we failed and where we continue to succeed and fail. It is also about love. And fucking. And that space in between, those moments of privacy: those moments of falling in love, and friendships. I’d love your feed back. What is missing. What I could include more of.
This has been one of the most amazing adventures of my life. I’ve learned so much about who I am and what I am capable of with these two guys, and all the other guys that we have encountered. I’ve learned about love and what that word means to me, and my capacity to love.
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